My brother & his fiance are getting married soon and have graciously included Matilda & I both in the wedding party. The owner of the bridal shop I am dealing with just told me I am "big all over" after I told her my measurements. Last time we discussed my measurements, several months back, she declared me "very small chested." Thanks lady, like I need any help with self-confidence in the body image department. I mean small-chested, fine, I can totally agree with that. But, big all over? That is just unnecessary. I think she spends too much of her time dealing with prom-dress-buying 16 year olds.